Today we celebrated the life of Elizabeth Patten, a founder member of West View Baptist Church. Elizabeth and her husband Bob leave behind an amazing legacy in the form of their children, grandchildren and great grandchildren who still visit West View Baptist Church regularly. It was often said apparently of Elizabeth and Bob that the only thing they had in common was their love of Jesus Christ. Well, what a thing to have in common. They were in at the birth of West View Baptist Church. When they married they had their wedding at the Headland Baptist Church and their reception at West View Baptist Church because West View was that new they weren’t authorised to do weddings.
Their children, Esther, Ruth, Malcolm and Raymond shared some amazing memories. They told of the latter part of her life where she had been saying to the care staff “Water by, water by”. This confused them because they knew that she had plenty to drink, plenty of water. Esther eventually figured out that her mum was referring to the sung version of Psalm 23, and the verse that ends “..the quiet waters by.” Once the care staff knew this they even printed off a version and kept it prominent in Elizabeth’s room and read it to her when she was agitated. The fantastic words of the Psalm set to music provided the rod and staff of comfort to Elizabeth.
One of Elizabeth’s friends from school proved that teachers jokes did not improve regardless of what era they were from. Elizabeth’s maiden name was Bean, her father was a master draughtsman and her grandfather a freeman of York. When Elizabeth was at school, one of her teachers had the job of monitoring who had had their daily milk and how much. He would run through the list until he came to Elizabeth’s entry, read out “Bean, 2” and then chortle and say “Elizabeth, Where have you been to?” The joke does not improve with age or retelling I’m afraid.
Elizabeth’s son Malcolm read her eulogy and painted a fantastic picture of Elizabeth and Bob’s house, filled with a welcome for children and young people. This welcome extended to many disadvantaged young people who came to stay for respite and holidays, to extended family from around the country, church visitors and missionaries and to friends of friends. Visitors to the church often found themselves at the Patten home, a house of many rooms although when the Raeburn was the only source of heat in the house, the kitchen diner was the place everyone gathered for chat and fun.
Malcolm also described the family memories of holidays around the UK with Elizabeth having every last penny sorted in order to be able to afford the holiday in the first place. Even the food was all bagged up and labelled for specific days. All of Elizabeth and Bob’s children remember the holidays as the best of times. Malcolm also reflected on the fact that although the trip often started with the family car the return leg was often made on the back of a recovery vehicle. Travelling for his mum’s funeral Malcolm unexpectedly found himself in the same situation, travelling in the back of a recovery wagon for the first time since he was a child. He pondered on whether or not this was a canny ploy to save money, weighing up in his current situation the cost of fuel saved against the costs of recovery.
Elizabeth Patten 31 October 1931 to 21 November 2017
“Christian, meditate much on heaven, it will help thee to press on and to forget the toil of the way. This vale of tears is but the pathway to the better country :this world of woe is but the stepping stone to a world of bliss” Charles Spurgeon.
vening of 18 December we will be doing our annual lightning tour of West View Lodge and Sheraton Court, singing carols for the residents and hopefully bringing a little bit of the Christmas story to them. It is a real privilege to be able to do this for the residents of these homes. We’re not the world’s best singers but we hope that the love and enthusiasm we try to share will make the residents happy.
We will not be having our usual Sunday Morning service on the 17th. Instead we will be again hosting our unique Live Nativity. Last year our special guests were some Shetland ponies. This year we are hoping to welcome two donkeys. We will be taking a collection as part of the Nativity as our Christmas gift to Hartlepool Hospice. Please do feel free to join us. And if you want to dress up as a Nativity character such as shepherd, wise man etc do feel free to join. The donkey roles have been taken though.
Friday 8 December saw our Filling Station Christmas meal with 50 friends joining us for a meal, some art
s and crafts and music and videos. It is worth reflecting that we only started Filling Station in April and none of us knew where we would end up with this project. We’ve made so many new friendships this year, been able to offer help and support to a few people and for some just simply listened and cared. The impact of Filling Station can best be summed up in the words of a Christmas card we recieived from one of the families that simply said ” Thank you for making me and my family feel so welcome”.
Focus is on the centre where Simeon encounters this couple with a child. It shows clearly two young people on the fringes of Jewish life. These two teenage peasant parents cannot even afford the normal purification offering. They offer two doves because they could not afford the more customary sheep . The simplicity of the offering doesn’t stop folks celebrating. Anna and Simeon, though clearly the old and the widowed do not hold back. Simeon means “hearing one” or “one who obeys”. Unusually Luke is lavish in his description. He outlines two whole descriptive verses. This invisible old man was inspired. Luke is beside himself with excitement in the retelling of this encounter . Three times Luke outlines the Holy Spirit’s role here. We have to think about Simeon and how many hopeful prayers had he prayed over different children over the years. Then Simeon finds the one, he has the saviour of the world in his arms.
